Handjob

Here we are again, the never-ending question of top, bottom, or versa. Why can’t we just proceed with what we have planned for the both of us instead on delving with this issue as if this actually runs a relationship? Mind you, sexual compatibility among the homosexual community that seems to lean on the top-bottom (read, dick to ass) combo is already a cliche.

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What's your number?

The average number of men a woman had slept with in the US is 11. That is according to the article featured in the film “What’s your number?” shown in 2011 starred by Anna Faris and Chris Evans. For men, there is no statistic for the average women he slept with, much as there was no information about homosexual men. Is the data factual in relation to reality?

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Being Old and Sad?

“I saw this old gay guy, about in his late fifty’s or early sixty’s, sitting across me while I am in a bus going here to your place. I was looking at him and I could see how sad his face was. I should have minded my own business but I come to think and ask myself, would I suffer the same fate?” A friend relayed his encounter during a drinking session. He then asked me, “How would you see yourself upon reaching that same age?”

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Crazy, Stupid Love

“Full moon ba ngayon at tila maalon ang karagatan.” That was last week. When I look up at the sky, I saw no full moon, only nearly full. That was kind of a relief since most people I know that week seemed to be crazy and stupid about love. Some were nearly falling out, some were avoiding falling in, while some were going at it just for the heck of it. As for me, well I guess I always try to be on top (pun intended) of it.

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Serendipity

There are some words, including curses, I really like to avoid using, and one of them is “serendipity”. Why not? This word I already associated with romance and I am not a romantic guy. Thinking of this word gives me goose bumps but hell, sometimes one could not really avoid some things so I might as well use it. Maybe this would be the first and last time I’ll use it.

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Twinkle Twinkle

The gay community makes use of jargons or terminologies to hide specific behaviour and characteristic peculiar to the group. There are hundreds of them, or even thousands. Some of them that are widely and openly used are perhaps the “top”, “bottom”, and “versa”. Applicable only to homosexuals I guessed, only the gay-friendly straight people would have understood them. Moreover, another term which is really my point of interest here is “twinks”. I first encountered it in gay stories I read. It refers to guys or men who are in their twenties.

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My Own Medicine

I watched him doing this and thought, “Eto ba ang tinatawag na ‘muscle worship’?”

Who would expect that I would finally made an encounter with myself during my last visit to my favourite cinema. No, it’s not out of desperation because of the absence of possible market. Rather, I met someone who is like just me when I was still starting to explore the world of my sexuality. He was uptight, naive, and maybe confused.

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Ka-trip

Ayoko sa effem hindi dahil sa kinamumuhian ko sila. Ayoko sa kanila dahil hindi sila ang gusto ko na ka-sex.

Someone sent me a message in PR asking for the reason why I don’t like effems and chubs because I said in my profile “ayoko sa effems at chubs na ka-trip”. I asked him why he was asking, “Are you making a survey on this?” He said he was just curious and would like to know the reason aside from the “preference” thing. I did not reply back for I may say something he would not like and perhaps could only boil an argument.

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The Two Towers

Life does not revolve around you. You are one silly, egocentric, and narcissistic prick.

They are not the towers in Mordor and Isengard of the Middle Earth. They are all fiction. What I am referring to are the two known ( I assume) towers in the PLU world. The towers which when mentioned, every PLU would just nod their head and probably would say, “What else do you expect?” These are the towers that are located almost at the center of the entire metropolis and could well become the seat of PLUs government.

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Unusual Pact

Love? It is hard to qualify or quantify because nowadays love is a mutual thing.

How far would you go in the name of love? Would you go as far as lending your partner to someone else for even a night just to make him happy? For the sake of love, would you like seeing your partner sucking another stranger’s dick just to satisfy his lusty need or request? This is love unrequited. Would you favor of it?

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Want to see my Peacock?

To equip oneself, one must know and learn the system that operates in the jungle.

“Want to taste my nine inches?”  Say nay if you do not want.  But how many would not allow themselves taste or at least hold a real live nine inches meat?  Two things I could guess, they may either be insecure or in denial.  For me, I would want to see one, hold it, and put a measuring tape against it.

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Tunay na Tripper

Di ba ninyo alam, ang tunay na tripper ay takot sa asawa?

Sa unang pagkakataon, gagawin ko ang pag-repost ng isa kong nakaraang entry. Matagal ko ng napag-isipan na gawin ito dahil minsan may nakita akong grupo sa isang gay community site na nagsasabing sila ay mga trippers. Napangiti lang ako dahil base sa aking sinulat noon, sila ay isang salungat sa aking paniniwala. Ang isa pang dahilan kung bakit ko ibinabalik ang post na ito ay dahil sa mga huling kaganapan sa blogosphere na tila nakalimutan na ang aking isinulat noon. Ang repost na ito ay isang paalala lamang. Mag-enjoy po tayo.

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Catching Jack

Sex is a mutual activity. We could not force someone to do something that he or she doesn't like.

Isang kaibigan ang bumisita sa bahay last week. Siguro wala ng mapag-usapan kaya napagpasyahan niya na tanungin ang isang ka-housemate. Ang tanong, “ano ang maramdaman mo pag makita mo si toot-toot na nagmamasturbate?” Siguro dahil wala sa mood iyung ka-housemate kaya di niya pinansin ang tanong. Bigla akong sumabad, ako ba ayaw mong tanungin?

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Porn Star

I don’t like the idea of being called a porn star. I would rather like people calling me ‘sexy’.

It is him again, a figure too familiar now because of his conspicuous presence every time he would come out from the locker room. Possessing a lean and muscular body, he would strut his nakedness without showing any discomfort whatsoever from the stares of spectators in and out of the pool area. He could have come out from a fitness magazine. He could be a model to a Renaissance sculptor or to a Romantic painter. Or he could be just an actor in a skin flick, a porn star.

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Hush Hush

You put your forefinger over your lips.  “Shhhhhhhhh.”  That is the only possible sound or should I say gesture you could put on because you are at least 5 meters away.  The bellowing sound coming from the speaker system also suggest that that is the only best thing you can do to communicate.  Yes, I know you are one of the hottest guys in our gym and knowing that you are in here could be a disaster to your reputation.  I have my own reputation too.  Hence, as long as we keep quiet and we respect the “sign”, our secret remains in the closet.  We have that understanding.

Night Out: Conclusion

Sometimes, we don’t need to commit a mistake just to learn. Knowledge in itself could prevent us from possible mistakes.

Tracing the path back to the bar where we came from, we spotted some taxis parked along the street. I told my companions not to hire them because experience tells me that these are not metered taxis. We continued on walking and see two interesting establishments, a karaoke bar and a gay bar. They are already closed. We cross the street and waited for a taxi.

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Night Out: Part Three

“You are such a grump.  That person is trying to make a conversation.  He could have like you and picking you up.”

You must not leave your comrade behind even if he’s dead or wounded.  That is strict SOP.  There were three warm bodies that left the camp to patrol unfamiliar territories, so rightfully, three must return together whether wounded, dead or alive.   The two of us spotted a target and we could get a bull’s eye with him.  However, our other companion chooses to follow a friendly force so we could get to our objective.  Hence, who are we going to choose?

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Night Out: Part Two

I give a person a “check” if he possesses a body like mine, regardless of the facial value.

The night is hot, literally hot. With the El Nino phenomenon, the country is experiencing its hottest months. The temperature fluctuates from 35-37 degrees centigrade. Looking at the signage again, I asked myself what that temperature equivalent would be in Fahrenheit.

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Night Out: Part One

There is a red wall, to my left, concealing a staircase leading to the “sex den”.

Adventure starts when one is doubtful of the outcome of the journey or activity.  It doesn’t need to occur in the morning or evening.  It doesn’t need to be in the itinerary.  The more spontaneous the sequence of events, the more thrilling it can become.

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