Risk of Expectations

“This is just for the trip. Really. After this, let us part our ways and just think that what has just happened is part of a dream.” Seems easy to say. What if after sleeping together the other party could not get over it and would treasure the moment when you were together? Is that something to be proud of or is it something to be scared?

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Boozeless

There is some behaviour in the PLU world that is best expressed under the influence of alcohol. One of which is sex. Okay, let us count how many sexual experiences we have had that were booze-driven. That is quite a number, right? Whether spontaneous or otherwise, alcohol has somewhat helped us loosen our nerves to perform some acts we don’t normally or usually do.

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Wanted Housemate

We are looking for two new housemates. Who would be interested? Perhaps I would be getting a number of inquiries from the readers of this blog through my comment page. If I would post my number here, sure I would also get some text messages and a few phone calls. However, how many of these interested people are really interested on checking our place and possibly convert them to a new housemate? I would probably say, less than 5 percent.

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What's your number?

The average number of men a woman had slept with in the US is 11. That is according to the article featured in the film “What’s your number?” shown in 2011 starred by Anna Faris and Chris Evans. For men, there is no statistic for the average women he slept with, much as there was no information about homosexual men. Is the data factual in relation to reality?

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On the Second Day

“Bloggers are not writers.” My visitor reiterated what he just heard from the movie we’re watching last night. “I heard that.” I said. I looked at him and I just could see his face grinning as if to mock me. Yeah I am a blogger and he is too, or at least he was. “He doesn’t have the credibility to say that. He’s a scientist and not a writer.” I told him.

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Being Old and Sad?

“I saw this old gay guy, about in his late fifty’s or early sixty’s, sitting across me while I am in a bus going here to your place. I was looking at him and I could see how sad his face was. I should have minded my own business but I come to think and ask myself, would I suffer the same fate?” A friend relayed his encounter during a drinking session. He then asked me, “How would you see yourself upon reaching that same age?”

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Serendipity

There are some words, including curses, I really like to avoid using, and one of them is “serendipity”. Why not? This word I already associated with romance and I am not a romantic guy. Thinking of this word gives me goose bumps but hell, sometimes one could not really avoid some things so I might as well use it. Maybe this would be the first and last time I’ll use it.

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astig sa astig - negotiation

opposite pole attract while similar ones repel. that's basic physics and probably we are all aware of that. but is it applicable to humans that have the complexity of behavior depending on the stimulus presented to them? do humans have the propensity to react simply in black and white just like any matter does?

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astig sa astig - seduction

ang astig ay dapat malakas ang loob sa pagsabi, pagpapakita o pang-akit na gusto niya ang isang tao. di siya nahihiya o natatakot sa posibleng kahihiyan na idudulot ng kanyang kapangahasan dahilan sa alam niya kung paano itatrato ang ganoong sitwasyon, at higit sa lahat, ang astig ay laging nakahanda sa mga ibubunga ng kanyang mga ikinikilos o ginagawa.

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astig sa astig - attraction

no impressions last, ika nga. habang tumatagal mong kasama ang isang tao, meron at meron ka talagang makikita sa kanyang pagkatao na maging sanhi ng pagkaudlot o pagpagpapatuloy ng isang impression. kapag nadadagdagan ang paghanga mo sa isang tao, ang impression na ito ay nagiging attraction.

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astig sa astig - impression

bukambibig ang astig na salita. minsan ginagamit natin ito na pamalit sa mga salitang sa palagay natin alanganin kung sasabihin natin. halimbawa, discreet tayo, barakong barako ang dating. pag may makita tayong pogi o guwapo, kayanin ba nating sabihin iyun lalo na pag may kasama tayong straight o taong hindi nakakaalam sa pagiging bakla natin? hindi, di ba? kaya sabihin natin, "wow, astig iyun ah." kaya kung sino man ang makarinig sa atin, hindi alam kung ano talaga ang tinutukoy natin.

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astig sa astig - prologue

"pare, ayoko sa effem. ayoko sa chubbie. top to top lang. astig sa astig lang." sabi ng isa naming kalaro sa badminton. tiningnan namin siya at napasalubong ang aming mga kilay. nagtawanan lahat. putang ina, kung magsalita ito akalain mo isang barako o kargador sa pier 2. eh kulang na lang humawak ng suklay at gunting ay isa na siyang parloristang baklang maturingan.

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Evolution of a Homosexual Blind Man

While riding a bus going to work, I spotted a blind man walking along Estrella and EDSA. Ahead of him, I saw a considerable concrete protrusion. I was not bothered if he can overcome the obstacle because I am confident that he is capable considering he has a walking stick with him. True to my expectation, using his stick, the blind man traverse the sidewalk unchallenged.

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Gender Generic

Parents or society must not dictate what a child's role should be.”

If you are to choose your gender, what would it be? Perhaps you would choose the other than the one you are now. Unfortunately, there’s really nothing you can do now because from the time you were born, there is already an ascribed gender for you based on what is visible between your legs. You are a boy or man because you have a penis, a girl or a woman because you have a vagina

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Early Retirement

I guess everyone thinks that having a “body to die for” is very advantageous to get the nicest cut if not the best in the meat market. Well, that’s true. Only people who are in denial would disagree to that. Perhaps this is the reason why many in the PLU world desire to achieve that kind of physique.

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Caught in the Act?

In evolution, everything that is useless starts to disappear.

Every part of the body needs an exercise. Kahit pa nga iyung internal organs natin eh kelangan naisa-subject sa physical workout gaya ng ating baga at puso. I think I am clear that when I say every part of the body, I mean all and that includes the appendage protruding from our crotch called the “penis”, “cock”, or “dick”. Sa madaling salita, “titi”, “burat”, o “tarugo”. Huwag na natin pagandahin ang terminolohiya o lagyan pa ng metaphor. Para sa mga wholesome na nagbabasa ng blog ko, (meron pa bang natitira?), isang paraan ito para ma-desensitize ang tenga ninyo sa makatotohanang pananalita.

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My Own Medicine

I watched him doing this and thought, “Eto ba ang tinatawag na ‘muscle worship’?”

Who would expect that I would finally made an encounter with myself during my last visit to my favourite cinema. No, it’s not out of desperation because of the absence of possible market. Rather, I met someone who is like just me when I was still starting to explore the world of my sexuality. He was uptight, naive, and maybe confused.

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Review: Masikip sa Tatlo

Giving an ounce of chance for a turn of event, no matter how impossible to the average person, is real.

Three is a crowd. This is a rule that is often observed when a third wheel or person suddenly comes into the picture. A joke it may be considered but it has become an observation that the third party is always the source of conflict of an existing relationship. However, with today’s sexual liberation this is becoming a cliché for more and more people are slowly considering the idea of experiencing it.

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Ka-trip

Ayoko sa effem hindi dahil sa kinamumuhian ko sila. Ayoko sa kanila dahil hindi sila ang gusto ko na ka-sex.

Someone sent me a message in PR asking for the reason why I don’t like effems and chubs because I said in my profile “ayoko sa effems at chubs na ka-trip”. I asked him why he was asking, “Are you making a survey on this?” He said he was just curious and would like to know the reason aside from the “preference” thing. I did not reply back for I may say something he would not like and perhaps could only boil an argument.

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The Two Towers

Life does not revolve around you. You are one silly, egocentric, and narcissistic prick.

They are not the towers in Mordor and Isengard of the Middle Earth. They are all fiction. What I am referring to are the two known ( I assume) towers in the PLU world. The towers which when mentioned, every PLU would just nod their head and probably would say, “What else do you expect?” These are the towers that are located almost at the center of the entire metropolis and could well become the seat of PLUs government.

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