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Wednesday, June 22, 2011

Special Friend

Who can ever give the harshest advice to love problems other than me? No one else and I know that. But it is necessary to make the other party realize that love in itself is harsh. That is reality.

Kopiko: Trip!
Kopiko: I need help
Trip: who u?
Kopiko: hmm. blogger din ako from before.
Kopiko: uhmm. xxx.blogspot.com
Kopiko: and xxx.blogspot.com
Kopiko: i always visit justforthetrip.
Trip: i remember xxx but not the other one.
Trip: what help can i make?
Kopiko: ohh. yup! xxx. ako un.
Kopiko: taga UP ka di ba?
Kopiko: hehe
Kopiko: well, love problem... e
Trip: hahaha. love problem. as if im the expert.
Trip: wel lets try. hahaha
Kopiko: there's this guy.
Kopiko: feb 2011 ko sya nameet
Kopiko: before that we're online friends na
Kopiko: tas naging textmates and all.
Kopiko: nung feb 2011, bb. bato sa UP. hm, first time namin magmeet, then nagdinner kami sa jollibee
Kopiko: haha, korni.
Kopiko: alam nya na nun na I like him e
Kopiko: tas ayun.. parang super naging close kami..
Kopiko: to the point na chat all day, text all day, bbm all day..
Trip: wheres the problem?
Kopiko: at first, i thought may something kami e.
Kopiko: hindi ko kasi ma-identify if may chance ba ako sa kanya -,-
Kopiko: tapos nitong may 1, parang he went out with another guy.
Kopiko: tas ako, nagselos...
Kopiko: tas bigla ko na lang sya tinext na "lie low muna ako kasi no matter what i do, affected ako"
Kopiko: sabi nya sa akin "eee, alam mo namang special friend kita eh.."
Kopiko: naguguluhan ako sa SPECIAL FRIEND..
Kopiko: alam mo ung implied naman na gusto ko sya eh... pero kinekwentuhan nya pa rin ako ng crushes nya at mga gsto nya
Kopiko: my problem is may ex siya tas di nya makalimutan
Kopiko: ako naman, kuya kuyahan ang dating kasi im waiting for him...
Kopiko: hindi ko alam if may chance pa kami
Trip: hmmm...
Kopiko: sorry. ang gulo haha.
Trip: iyan kasi ang problema pag nag aassume tayo lagi.
Kopiko: so ibig sabihin assuming lang yun?
Kopiko: so ibig sabihin ang special friend ay friends na lang talaga?
Trip: oo naman.
Kopiko: first time ko pa naman magkagusto.
Trip: ganyaan talaga.
Kopiko: oo naman? na special friend ay friends na lang talaga?
Trip: dapat mag bigay ka lagi ng benefit of the doubt.
Trip: nasabi mo na ba sa kanya na iba ang feelingmo para sa kanya?
Kopiko: oo
Trip: at sabi niya friend lang kayo. so be it.
Trip: wala ka ng magagawa diyan kundi respetuhin mo disisyon niya.
Trip: kung di mo kaya eh di dumistansiya ka.
Kopiko: yun na ba yung ibig sabihin ng special friend?
Trip: kung kaya mo naman, pilitin mong tanggalin ang feelings mo para sa kanya at palitan na lang ng pagiging friend.
Trip: ayannnn... pinipilit mo pa rin na may ibang kahulugan ang "special friend" kaya nasasaktan ka.
Trip: friend ay friend.
Trip: huwag mo ng bigyan ng palamuti iyan.
Kopiko: so yun na talaga yun.
Kopiko:
Kopiko: kelangan ko na lang tanggapin.
Trip: move on.
Kopiko: Feel ko tanggap ko naman na... Hindi lang ako maka-move on. Pwede bang ganun? hAHA
Trip: feel mo lang yun pero hindi.
Kopiko: hahaha.
Kopiko: Hindi naman nabago yung friendship..
Kopiko: Hindi ko siya pinansin ng isang linggo. Tapos oks na ulit kami. Parang walang nangyari.
Trip: tuloy mo lang. maghanap ka na din ng iba mong gusto at ikuwento mo din sa kanya.
Trip: tingnan natin kung ano magiging reaction niya.
Kopiko: sige sige. i'll stay in touch with you, trey.
Kopiko: nagbibigay ka ba ng #? super wala ako alam sa ganito.
Kopiko: feeling ko super stiff ko when with bi people
Trip: hindi eh.
Kopiko: it's alright.
Kopiko: salamat kuya.
Trip: no problem.

The main problem in relationships is that we like to make assumptions and to live in wishful thinking that we are sharing the same dreams with the people we love. That is not always true. You have your dreams and he has his own. Are you meeting in the middle? No. Thus, the best thing to do is not to make a future with someone else unless you are sure you share the same path.

2 comments:

bai said...

tama nga naman ung advice mo! hihi..

minsan kasi, pagsobrang in.love tau, assuming na agad tau na may gusto rin ung tao sa atin. with those small things that he's done for us, feeling natin special na tau for him. we sumtimes misinterpret his kindness.

ganun talaga. nothing to worry though, coz it's normal.

Mr. Lover Boy said...

i somewhat agree!

if you feel more than friendship to a person let that person know.... if that person says he/she is in for just friendship... move on! kahit special ka pa.... the point andun yung word na friend... move on na agad

and if you move on and marealize niya na love ka niya..sorry na lang siya :0

 

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