Handjob

Here we are again, the never-ending question of top, bottom, or versa. Why can’t we just proceed with what we have planned for the both of us instead on delving with this issue as if this actually runs a relationship? Mind you, sexual compatibility among the homosexual community that seems to lean on the top-bottom (read, dick to ass) combo is already a cliche.

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Foursome or ... (cont.)

"Cocksucker!"  How derogatory is that? I, who has been envied because of my body, will bow down on someone’s dick? I would be tainting my reputation if I would do that. I would rather take that label of being narcissist, or a chauvinist, or an egocentric bastard than being called a “cocksucker”. I never thought in my mind that I will have a cock inside my mouth until three years after I have my partner. But it was only two years ago that I started to explore others’ dicks. Yeah, I know I am a late bloomer.

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Foursome or ... (cont.)

The door is open. Should we close it? James and John are outside still drinking the remaining beers. Whether they have plans to make out or not, I still don’t have any idea. Perhaps if we would let the door remain open, we could set up the mood, would make them horny, and would eventually give in to their desires. We leave the door open.

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Foursome or ...

“When the cat is away, the mouse will play.” This cliché is no longer true with me since I can always play even when the cat is present and intriguingly even, the cat could always join the game that the mouse is playing. Weird to most but hey, aren’t we all having the option of choosing what is best or let’s say satisfying for us? Certainly yes, we do. Moreover, would it not be interesting if a different game is introduced while the cat is away? So now, what game is the mouse contemplating of doing?

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Boozeless

There is some behaviour in the PLU world that is best expressed under the influence of alcohol. One of which is sex. Okay, let us count how many sexual experiences we have had that were booze-driven. That is quite a number, right? Whether spontaneous or otherwise, alcohol has somewhat helped us loosen our nerves to perform some acts we don’t normally or usually do.

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On the Second Day

“Bloggers are not writers.” My visitor reiterated what he just heard from the movie we’re watching last night. “I heard that.” I said. I looked at him and I just could see his face grinning as if to mock me. Yeah I am a blogger and he is too, or at least he was. “He doesn’t have the credibility to say that. He’s a scientist and not a writer.” I told him.

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Crazy, Stupid Love

“Full moon ba ngayon at tila maalon ang karagatan.” That was last week. When I look up at the sky, I saw no full moon, only nearly full. That was kind of a relief since most people I know that week seemed to be crazy and stupid about love. Some were nearly falling out, some were avoiding falling in, while some were going at it just for the heck of it. As for me, well I guess I always try to be on top (pun intended) of it.

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astig sa astig - negotiation

opposite pole attract while similar ones repel. that's basic physics and probably we are all aware of that. but is it applicable to humans that have the complexity of behavior depending on the stimulus presented to them? do humans have the propensity to react simply in black and white just like any matter does?

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astig sa astig - seduction

ang astig ay dapat malakas ang loob sa pagsabi, pagpapakita o pang-akit na gusto niya ang isang tao. di siya nahihiya o natatakot sa posibleng kahihiyan na idudulot ng kanyang kapangahasan dahilan sa alam niya kung paano itatrato ang ganoong sitwasyon, at higit sa lahat, ang astig ay laging nakahanda sa mga ibubunga ng kanyang mga ikinikilos o ginagawa.

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astig sa astig - attraction

no impressions last, ika nga. habang tumatagal mong kasama ang isang tao, meron at meron ka talagang makikita sa kanyang pagkatao na maging sanhi ng pagkaudlot o pagpagpapatuloy ng isang impression. kapag nadadagdagan ang paghanga mo sa isang tao, ang impression na ito ay nagiging attraction.

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astig sa astig - impression

bukambibig ang astig na salita. minsan ginagamit natin ito na pamalit sa mga salitang sa palagay natin alanganin kung sasabihin natin. halimbawa, discreet tayo, barakong barako ang dating. pag may makita tayong pogi o guwapo, kayanin ba nating sabihin iyun lalo na pag may kasama tayong straight o taong hindi nakakaalam sa pagiging bakla natin? hindi, di ba? kaya sabihin natin, "wow, astig iyun ah." kaya kung sino man ang makarinig sa atin, hindi alam kung ano talaga ang tinutukoy natin.

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Kaibigan

Araw-araw nandoon ang temtasyon. Palagay na natin wala namang mawawala. Palagay na natin na bawat isa ay alam na kahit gawin namin iyun ay wala rin namang magagalit kasi bawat isa alam ang bawat pagkatao. Maharot, mapusok, at mapagbigay.

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Special Friend

Who can ever give the harshest advice to love problems other than me? No one else and I know that. But it is necessary to make the other party realize that love in itself is harsh. That is reality.

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House of Sin

When someone realizes his true “natural” freedom, something that truly deviates from the social and moral convention, then he becomes a sinner.

That’s always the case. The only opportunity that the mouse can play is when the cat is away. So, when we announce our travel to Davao to our housemates, I can see the smiles on their faces. It seems they see some window of opportunity. As if ...

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Caught in the Act?

In evolution, everything that is useless starts to disappear.

Every part of the body needs an exercise. Kahit pa nga iyung internal organs natin eh kelangan naisa-subject sa physical workout gaya ng ating baga at puso. I think I am clear that when I say every part of the body, I mean all and that includes the appendage protruding from our crotch called the “penis”, “cock”, or “dick”. Sa madaling salita, “titi”, “burat”, o “tarugo”. Huwag na natin pagandahin ang terminolohiya o lagyan pa ng metaphor. Para sa mga wholesome na nagbabasa ng blog ko, (meron pa bang natitira?), isang paraan ito para ma-desensitize ang tenga ninyo sa makatotohanang pananalita.

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Review: Masikip sa Tatlo

Giving an ounce of chance for a turn of event, no matter how impossible to the average person, is real.

Three is a crowd. This is a rule that is often observed when a third wheel or person suddenly comes into the picture. A joke it may be considered but it has become an observation that the third party is always the source of conflict of an existing relationship. However, with today’s sexual liberation this is becoming a cliché for more and more people are slowly considering the idea of experiencing it.

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State of Jealousy

tanong ko sa isang napakaseloso na tao, "ano ang mahihita mo sa kaseselos mo?" di sumagot dahil alam niyang wala.

“Would you allow your partner to have sex with him?” James asked me during a drinking session with my partner around and two other friends who he has just met. I am not surprised with his question and the idea accompanying it because I knew his frankness well. On the other hand, I was observing the other two witnesses on how they would react. Fortunately, I could not see any reaction from their faces, or they just know how to conceal it.

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That Jerk Experiment: Poser

I do not need to pose as someone or something else because I have my own qualities to make things happen.

The world is surrounded not always by good or trying to be good people.  There are always assholes and bitches that would catch us off-guard and would try to piss our day.  In return, we would react.  How, would really depend on our own character and mood.  Or we would just brush them off and move on with our lives considering that they are insignificant fools.

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Intensiyon

Alam niya ang iyung pananaw ukol sa seks.  Walang bahid ng emosyon.  Walang namumuong koneksiyon.

Wala ka pang tulog dahil sa mga pangyayari kagabi.  Mainit at mapusok ang mga nilalang sa maliit na ispasyo ng apartment ninyo.  Kabi-kabila may nakalatag na pagkain at ikaw lang ang hinihintay kung alin ang susunggaban.  Ikaw man ay ilang beses din na sinubukang lamunin.  Nagpaunlak ka dahil alam mo walang mawawala sa iyo at sa mga taong nakapaligid sa iyo.

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Random Chat #1

A friend approached me asking if I know how to swim.  I told him yes and even told him that I am currently tutoring two of our friends.  He got interested because he and his boyfriend do not know how.

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