Risk of Expectations

“This is just for the trip. Really. After this, let us part our ways and just think that what has just happened is part of a dream.” Seems easy to say. What if after sleeping together the other party could not get over it and would treasure the moment when you were together? Is that something to be proud of or is it something to be scared?

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Boozeless

There is some behaviour in the PLU world that is best expressed under the influence of alcohol. One of which is sex. Okay, let us count how many sexual experiences we have had that were booze-driven. That is quite a number, right? Whether spontaneous or otherwise, alcohol has somewhat helped us loosen our nerves to perform some acts we don’t normally or usually do.

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Wanted Housemate

We are looking for two new housemates. Who would be interested? Perhaps I would be getting a number of inquiries from the readers of this blog through my comment page. If I would post my number here, sure I would also get some text messages and a few phone calls. However, how many of these interested people are really interested on checking our place and possibly convert them to a new housemate? I would probably say, less than 5 percent.

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Flash: Two Men Facing Infidelity Charges

Another crime of passion was committed in the vicinity of Boni Avenue, Mandaluyong City, yesterday when two men were caught in the act of carnal consummation. The crime happened between 8:00 and 9:00 AM while the lone witness was sleeping on the same couch where the scene of the crime took place.

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Foolish Love

And then they were dead. The two teens, assumed to be lovers, who were brought to a hospital due to gunshot wounds succumb to death. It is sad but hey, life is not all about living till one reach his or her oldest age. Sometimes life is cut short for some reasons that others think could be foolish. Yet, who are we to judge them?

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astig sa astig - negotiation

opposite pole attract while similar ones repel. that's basic physics and probably we are all aware of that. but is it applicable to humans that have the complexity of behavior depending on the stimulus presented to them? do humans have the propensity to react simply in black and white just like any matter does?

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astig sa astig - seduction

ang astig ay dapat malakas ang loob sa pagsabi, pagpapakita o pang-akit na gusto niya ang isang tao. di siya nahihiya o natatakot sa posibleng kahihiyan na idudulot ng kanyang kapangahasan dahilan sa alam niya kung paano itatrato ang ganoong sitwasyon, at higit sa lahat, ang astig ay laging nakahanda sa mga ibubunga ng kanyang mga ikinikilos o ginagawa.

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astig sa astig - attraction

no impressions last, ika nga. habang tumatagal mong kasama ang isang tao, meron at meron ka talagang makikita sa kanyang pagkatao na maging sanhi ng pagkaudlot o pagpagpapatuloy ng isang impression. kapag nadadagdagan ang paghanga mo sa isang tao, ang impression na ito ay nagiging attraction.

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astig sa astig - impression

bukambibig ang astig na salita. minsan ginagamit natin ito na pamalit sa mga salitang sa palagay natin alanganin kung sasabihin natin. halimbawa, discreet tayo, barakong barako ang dating. pag may makita tayong pogi o guwapo, kayanin ba nating sabihin iyun lalo na pag may kasama tayong straight o taong hindi nakakaalam sa pagiging bakla natin? hindi, di ba? kaya sabihin natin, "wow, astig iyun ah." kaya kung sino man ang makarinig sa atin, hindi alam kung ano talaga ang tinutukoy natin.

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astig sa astig - prologue

"pare, ayoko sa effem. ayoko sa chubbie. top to top lang. astig sa astig lang." sabi ng isa naming kalaro sa badminton. tiningnan namin siya at napasalubong ang aming mga kilay. nagtawanan lahat. putang ina, kung magsalita ito akalain mo isang barako o kargador sa pier 2. eh kulang na lang humawak ng suklay at gunting ay isa na siyang parloristang baklang maturingan.

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The Two Towers

Life does not revolve around you. You are one silly, egocentric, and narcissistic prick.

They are not the towers in Mordor and Isengard of the Middle Earth. They are all fiction. What I am referring to are the two known ( I assume) towers in the PLU world. The towers which when mentioned, every PLU would just nod their head and probably would say, “What else do you expect?” These are the towers that are located almost at the center of the entire metropolis and could well become the seat of PLUs government.

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Stand by ...

I am twirling the USB cable with my thumb and index finger trying to figure out what to write in this entry. The truth is I should not be writing since I have some work to finish and besides, my mind is telling me that I have nothing to write, but at the same time some part of it is telling me that there is and the only problem why I could not proceed is that, how would I address this entry to ensure that there is some good insight I could derive from whatever I would be writing. Thus, till this time, there is a battle going on inside me.

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Allegory of the Rabbit Snake

Honesty is the best policy if served at the right time.

“Master, talk to us about honesty.” He asked. “I could not talk about honesty my young apprentice. ” I replied. “But why master? Men who have met you admire your forthrightness. Sure it does not insult but rather enlightens.” He insisted. “My apprentice, not everyone that hears listens.” I calmly said. “But master…”

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The Nerve

If there’s this person who wants to meet us, give him credit for that for he is one brave soul.

"The nerve". That is all you can say when you finally meet the person whom you have been communicating with on an online social network if he or she doesn’t fit the picture that he or she posted on the website. Consequently, the next best thing you should do is walk-out. Is that what you did?

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Undergarment

It is just reasonable to do things that speak more of yourself than do something because others do it also.

Boxers, briefs, or commando? If this is a multiple-choice question, there should be an all of the above option but it is not, so I could still choose all. Yes, I have all those types of securing myself underneath though going commando can be of a little disadvantage. However, the third type is my most preferred mode.

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SPO4 J. dela Cruz

I must say it is too risky to be involved with police officers in a man to man relationship.

Names I would easily forget but faces, certainly not. When I saw him sitting opposite me inside the PUJ I could not help but looked for a second and memories just went up memory lane. What a small world indeed. What a coincidence since just last night we were just talking about how small the world is, Manila in particular, with a friend. He saw someone he had fucked before while he was sending his boyfriend off to a taxi.

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Emotional Love

It seems that our relationship is more bonded or fortified. It is really nothing emotional but rather psychological.

Sex and love are not the same. This has always been my thesis and I have been vocal with this in my blog and even in my conversations with people. However, this same people keep on asking me the same question every time they see or chat with me as if they are trying to test my consistency with my proposition. Hence, once again, last Saturday, a friend of mine threw the question on the matter. What is the difference in having sex with other men and with my partner?

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Tunay na Tripper

Di ba ninyo alam, ang tunay na tripper ay takot sa asawa?

Sa unang pagkakataon, gagawin ko ang pag-repost ng isa kong nakaraang entry. Matagal ko ng napag-isipan na gawin ito dahil minsan may nakita akong grupo sa isang gay community site na nagsasabing sila ay mga trippers. Napangiti lang ako dahil base sa aking sinulat noon, sila ay isang salungat sa aking paniniwala. Ang isa pang dahilan kung bakit ko ibinabalik ang post na ito ay dahil sa mga huling kaganapan sa blogosphere na tila nakalimutan na ang aking isinulat noon. Ang repost na ito ay isang paalala lamang. Mag-enjoy po tayo.

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Take a Shit

“Shitting on your own backyard” is an overstatement, an overreaction by people who are either morally upright or uptight.

“Can you do that?” A friend asked referring to the story I told him about a sexual encounter I just had. There was awe from his face thinking that I had done that with a friend. I could enumerate several reasons but decided to answer him with a question. “What’s wrong with that?” It was his turn to struggle for an answer.

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Jealousy vs. Envy

“Envy typically involves two people, and jealousy typically involves three people.”

I did not expect that last Sunday would become a day of realization.  It is suppose to be an ordinary day but there were two significant occurrences that gave light to one issue that most people in relationship have experienced.  The resolution to the issue is feeble if only couples would take time to examine carefully the nature of causality.

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